3 Ways therapy could save you thousands when divorcing a narcissistic ex
Therapy may seem like a luxury when facing spiraling costs divorcing a narcissistic ex. You have legal fees to pay, you have to survive on
May 23, 2022
Divorce
What happens when the narcissist can no longer control you?
When the narcissist can no longer control you they will start to control others – both their view of you and the situation. They ensure
March 24, 2022
Attachment Based Approach To Parental Alienation
A distraught divorced mother reports that when her formerly loving daughter returns from contact with her father, the child treats her with disrespect and hostility. A
February 22, 2022
Emotional abuse
Why Netflix’s MAID is so important for abuse survivors
There’s a lot of talk about Netflix‘s MAID at the moment. It tells the story of a women fleeing an abusive relationship and the systemic difficulties
October 12, 2021
Leaving A Narcissist Partner – A True Story Of Devastation, Discovery and Finally Freedom
The Realisation There were three things that happened that made me finally sum up the courage to be able to walk out of my own
August 10, 2021
Narcissistic abuse, codependency and the trauma bond
One of the most difficult things to recover from after narcissistic abuse is the trauma bond. Mainly because it doesn’t make any sense. Your brain
June 2, 2021
Narcissistic Abuse Tactics
This presentation details the top ten narcissistic abuse tactics we have identified though our work. How many do you recognise?
June 2, 2021
Narcissistic Abuse
Thing about narcissistic abuse is it you don’t see it coming They can be absolutely lovely. Sweep you off your feet. Be everything you want
June 2, 2021
Narcissistic Abuse Cycle
Narcissistic Tactics Most narcissists appear to follow some kind of scriptbook as their behaviours follow a similar pattern. It starts with lovebombing When you meet
June 2, 2021
Narcissistic Families – Hidden In Plain Sight
Narcissistic families do a very good job of looking “normal” to the outside world. But inside they are full of self-loathing, hurt, anger, anxiety and
May 30, 2021
Codependency and Narcissistic Abuse
Codependency and narcissistic abuse go hand in hand. The codependent needs to feel wanted and needed. The narcissist desperately wants and needs that level of
May 30, 2021
False Memory Creation In Attachment Based Parental Alienation
False memories are a common feature of attachment based parental alienation and are a shared delusional disorder with the aligned parent. It is one of
May 30, 2021
What is attachment based parental alienation?
Attachment based parental alienation describes both the impact of a narcissistic borderline parent’s disorganised attachment style and the attachment suppression behaviour in the child. It
May 30, 2021
narcissistic parents
Characteristics Of A Narcissistic Parent
It is important before we discuss the characteristics of a narcissistic parents that we make this statement: The term narcissist has become more popular over
May 17, 2021
Divorce
Protecting Children From Emotional Abuse And Neglect From A Narcissistic Ex
Both personal experience and professional curiosity lead us to research and develop support services for parents going through separation. One thing that comes up time
May 13, 2021
Narcissistic Injury In Family Court
Narcissists suffer from what the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders defines as narcissistic injury: “… vulnerability in self-esteem which makes narcissistic people very sensitive to ‘injury’ from criticism or
March 15, 2021
Setting Emotional Boundaries After Narcissistic Abuse
Learning to separate feelings about the past from needs in the present is the biggest gift you can give your future. Hearing that you need
February 17, 2021
Family Court
How To Protect Children From Family Court
Most cases involving a narcissist in Family Court are protracted and can take years to “resolve”. Meaning children often living most of their childhood through
February 6, 2021
Divorce
The Top 5 Ways To Prove Narcissistic Abuse UK
I get asked so many times “how do I prove narcissistic abuse in family court?” and so I wanted to answer that with the top
January 22, 2021
Help! I Think I Was In a Relationship With A Narcissist
Who Am I? Not something I had thought about for a while. I actually don’t know the answer to that. Sound familiar? Do you feel
January 16, 2021
Co Parenting With A Narcissist
Co-parenting with a narcissist is impossible. They fight you on every little detail and are always vying for control over you. Whether that be directly
January 6, 2021