codependency
THE SILENT SHAME OF NARCISSISTIC ABUSE
Let’s talk about shame. These phrases come up a lot when I’m talking to people about past relationships that have hurt them… “I should have
September 4, 2020
codependency
Empaths and Narcissists: An Addictive Combination
Empaths are gentle and perceptive, we feel the emotion and soul of a person. We see into their core being and feel the pain someone
July 14, 2020
codependency
How Codependents Leave Abusive Narcissistic Relationships
“Many of us live in denial of who we truly are because we fear losing someone or something-and there are times that if we don’t
July 7, 2020
Divorce
7 Things You Need To Know About Family Court Before You Get There
Preparation of Self is the Key Preparing your mental and emotional wellbeing are both imperative to enable you to have the strength and focus you
June 30, 2020
Emotional abuse
Narcissistic Behaviours: What Gaslighting Really Looks Like
Am I just being petty? Do I have an anger problem? Am I micro-managing? Everyone thinks we are a great couple… why aren’t I happy?
June 23, 2020
Uncategorized
How Narcissists and Other Personalities Win in Family Court
CREDIBILITY IS EVERYTHING IN FAMILY COURT We grow up believing in justice. We follow the rules. We do as we are told. Believing that it
June 16, 2020
Secrets and Lies – The Truth About Narcissistic Families
Narcissistic families do a very good job of looking “normal” to the outside world. But inside they are full of self-loathing, hurt, anger, anxiety and
June 9, 2020
Divorce
Why the narcissist blames you for everything
The sudden fall from grace can literally be like hitting the ground from a 10ft drop. The person who once adored everything about you and
June 2, 2020
Uncategorized
Preparing For Court Against A Narcissist
Most people believe that Family Court is for extreme cases and child abusers. They never imagine they will end up having to go themselves because
May 26, 2020
Divorcing A Narcissist
It’s never-ending. I just want to move on but they won’t let me. I feel like I will never escape” Client attempting to divorce a
May 20, 2020
Uncategorized
20 Signs Your Ex Is Narcissistic
You leave and you’ll never see the kids again Narcissistic mother Things started so well. They seemed perfect and, even better, they made you feel
May 19, 2020
Narcissistic Parents
I constantly had to tell my mother she was perfect to keep her happy Daughter of a narcissist Our family is supposed to be our
May 17, 2020
Parental Alienation
A distraught divorced mother reports that when her formerly loving daughter returns from contact with her father, the child treats her with disrespect and hostility.
May 16, 2020
Parental Alienation and Accountability
DISORDERED PARENTING AND PARENTAL ALIENATION Disordered parenting and parental alienation affects hundreds of thousands of children every year in the UK alone. And yet cases
May 16, 2020
False Allegations
False allegations have become a common feature in Family Court. They can be made by resident or non-resident parent and their aim is to regain
May 14, 2020
Uncategorized
How do I deal with my child rejecting me?
It doesn’t make any sense, we used to be so close, what happened? Children rejecting their parents goes against everything we know about attachment and
May 12, 2020
Divorce
Child Court Order – What Is It And Do I Need One?
So your ex has stopped you from seeing the children or is making decisions which you disagree with. They refuse to communicate and so you
May 5, 2020
Uncategorized
How Do I Parent My Alienated Child?
I work with so many parents who are attempting to co-parent (I use that term loosely as the reality is that it is about as
April 28, 2020
codependency
What It Is Really Like To Be Raised By A Narcissist
Narcissistic parents get a lot of bad press. I myself have targeted them for criticism. And not without good reason. Narcissists, by definition, lack some
April 21, 2020
How do you explain parental alienation to someone who has never heard of it?
My brother knows what I went through with my ex. I talked to him about some bits but probably never really told the whole story
April 14, 2020
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3 Ways To Make Family Court More Aware Of Narcissism
Family Court is set up to be adversarial. It pits one parent against another. This unfortunately feeds into the narcissist’s ego defence which is to
April 7, 2020