But so far the ex is proving to be more slippery than a wet slide. And your children are more at risk with every day that passes.
So do you request another judge? Another Cafcass worker? Make a complaint?
You could but will that change anything? Who knows, it’s a postcode lottery and you and the kids need better odds than that.
Maybe if you write to your MP and kick up enough of a fuss, something will get done.
Perhaps but in the current situation, I think they have bigger fish to fry and so can you afford to keep waiting?
You could join online forums and complain with everyone else, raising awareness and hoping societal views will change. There’s safety in numbers right? Surely if you make enough noise someone will listen?
Maybe but is it going to help you RIGHT NOW?
Right now the only thing you can be sure of is that you wish this wasn’t happening. That you could go back in time and not have met them. That your ex will make some huge, glaringly obvious mistake and everyone will gasp as the truth is finally revealed. Wishing that you had all the money in the world to pay for the best barrister to crush this.
Again, I understand wishing. Wishing is escaping this nightmare. But it still doesn’t bring you any closer to that elusive solution you seek.
What if the solution wasn’t dependent upon your ex, or the judge, or the social worker, or the psychologist, barrister or position of the moon?
What if the solution was much closer to home? Was the one thing you can always rely upon?
What if you stopped looking to everyone and everything else to find the solution and you became the solution?
Your children need you to be the solution. They are looking to you to fix this. Not the judge or the social worker but you.
Get Court Ready will give you all the skills, insight and guidance you need to BECOME THE SOLUTION.
The techniques I share with you in this programme would cost you thousands of pounds and years of study to master. I want you to get results NOW and so I have put all of my knowledge (child protection social worker and therapist) and experience (thousands of hours of work with parents in the exact same situation as you) into this amazing programme which, if you follow it and embrace all the teachings, will guarantee you success in Family Court
After an abusive relationship your whole body is in survival mode which means your brain is not functioning at full capacity, which already puts you on the backfoot. This first module is your wake up call. You will begin to activate the parts of your brain you need for this battle and start to form an action plan.
Your ex fired the first shot and so you are using all your energy on damage limitation which is exhausting and frustrating. This module will give you the skills and understanding to unpick the narrative, present the truth and trigger the ex to reveal their true colours.
Everything you say and do is being judged and so it is important your communication is spot on. This is so much more than position statements or the words you speak. This module will look at all the hidden aspects of communication and provide you with some powerful tools to ensure your message is received loud and clear.
Your ex knows exactly what buttons to press to get you to act exactly as they want you to which is then misinterpreted by professionals. Learning what your own triggers are will take away their power and put it right back in your hands.
Your ex will have left you feeling powerless and this situation is no better. BUT you are the key to changing this situation and when you believe that you really can achieve anything. This module will help you to flex your superpowers and develop the confidence to kick ass.
The children often seem to be forgotten in this process and despite looking like they are very powerful, they are actually incredibly vulnerable. This final module equips you with all the tools, including a specialised parenting plan outline, to ensure the best outcome for the children.
On the other side of the enrollment is your Get You Ready programme. It has been tried and tested and already started to rebuild relationships and we are so happy to see you have that in your life too.
Why is it just £97 for lifetime access?
My philosophy has always been that money should never be a barrier to a child seeing their parent. It’s why I am making this so affordable, because we want as many people as possible to reconnect with their children and re-build strong, loving relationships. You get lifetime access so you can rely on this as a resource however long this takes and you can work through at completely your own pace. More than that though, you will have the best possible preparation for the next act of your play.
As part of my desire to reduce time spent in court which could be better spent having fun with your children and to overcome the financial barrier which sometimes is there for parents and be able put forward your best case with all the knowledge and skills you will learn on this course, I am personally adding in these bonus resources to give you the best chance of success in court:
“Help! My child is being used a weapon” helps parents to protect their children with positive parenting tools for dealing with a narcissistic ex
Learn about why and when Cafcass will become involved in your case, what to expect and their obligations.
This guide provides you with insider knowledge about what Social Workers are looking for and how you can best represent your case.
This is all about providing you with the tools to stay the course. The ex is obsessed with the victory and so you need all the strength you can get as will your children. Things won’t always go your way so this guide provides practical tools for you and your children to build your “bounce-back-ability”
This workbook is a great compliment to the course as it helps you to develop your assertiveness skills and set some firm boundaries which will keep you and your children safe both now and in the future
Throughout the course we are looking at developing new, more powerful and more helpful habits. Like all new things this will feel odd at the start so the habit tracker is there for you to see yourself change until your new habits are as natural as brushing your teeth.
A private Facebook Group to provide you with both peer support from one another and additional coaching from myself where necessary.
The course will ask you to delve deep and this support group will be there to ask questions or explore any issues which arise. It’s the wrap around care which I want to provide as you go through one of the most difficult experiences of your life.
On the other side of the enrollment is your Get You Ready programme. It has been tried and tested and already started to rebuild relationships and we are so happy to see you have that in your life too.
Why is it just £97 for lifetime access?
My philosophy has always been that money should never be a barrier to a child seeing their parent. It’s why I am making this so affordable, because we want as many people as possible to reconnect with their children and re-build strong, loving relationships. You get lifetime access so you can rely on this as a resource however long this takes and you can work through at completely your own pace. More than that though, you will have the best possible preparation for the next act of your play.
Whilst the course has everything you need to navigate the court process and fully prepare yourself for the games your ex will play, sometimes you need extra support and so for a limited time we am offering 3 hours of one:one support with our specialist Adele for just £200 to really delve deep into your case and ensure you have everything covered.
Ideal for more complex cases.
We have a strategy call with Sarah Squires, our Founder, for which is £150 for 90 minutes.
If this is something you feel is necessary for you please book a free 30 minute consultation to get you started.