Are you are ready to take back your power and change your situation to one where you are in control, not your ex?
You know that they can lie like a pro but you honestly believed people would see through it. But they aren’t. They are buying all the lies and looking at you like you are the problem when all you have done is try to put boundaries in place and protect yourself and your children.
You feel gaslighted all over again by the process. The truth is being constantly distorted.
At each hearing the narcissist brings more lies. Each person you deal with wants you to answer for the lies they have told.
They delay the process with an allegation or failure to do what they were supposed to but no-one does anything.
With each hearing you feel more and more hopeless and just as controlled as you were in the relationship. All you wanted was freedom from abuse but it’s got worse and you can’t see how it’s going to end.
Deborah was very skeptical when we first spoke. She had been through the court process repeatedly for the past six years (and over £100,000 in fees), each time her ex had gazumped her with last minute allegations (this time he threw his grenade just 24 hours before the court date on Monday) and left my client in panic mode. He had also managed to convince everyone that my client was uncommunicative and neglectful.
As a lawyer he knew exactly what to say and always turned up in his expensive suit, schmoozing the other professionals and feeling pretty invincible.
Whilst my client felt exhausted, angry and beaten. She was terrified her ex was going to win again and he would get primary custody.
In our three sessions we were able to prepare her for court as well as the meetings with the GAL and Youth Worker who were providing evidence in court. Plus the school, doctors and therapists.
What we achieved in such a short amount of time was incredible.
We worked with Deborah to build her confidence to approach the court process, the interviews and her ex with the belief that she could get the result she wanted.
We had weekly sessions (it only took 3!) where we listened to her concerns and helped her formulate a plan. This included:
It includes child protection knowledge, a thorough understanding of Cluster B personality disorders and life coaching tools to shift your mentality to one where you believe you can get the result you want.
The programme is a 6 week coaching programme which includes:
By the end of the 6 weeks you will feel:
If you would like a free no obligation consultation to find out if Get Court Ready is right for you, book in today