IS YOUR NARCISSISTIC EX USING COURT TO CONTINUE TO ABUSE YOU?

Are you are ready to take back your power and change your situation to one where you are in control, not your ex?

IF SO, WATCH THIS VIDEO NOW

Right now you are probably terrified.  Your ex has control and they want full custody. The child arrangement order you have isn’t working. They are engineering things to cut you out of the kids lives but no-one else can see it. 

How do you make the courts see what you are dealing with? They are smart enough not to be obvious and emotional abuse is so hard to prove.

Going to court against a narcissist defies logic!

You know that they can lie like a pro but you honestly believed people would see through it.  But they aren’t.  They are buying all the lies and looking at you like you are the problem when all you have done is try to put boundaries in place and protect yourself and your children.

You feel gaslighted all over again by the process.  The truth is being constantly distorted.  

Why can’t they see what is happening?

At each hearing the narcissist brings more lies.  Each person you deal with wants you to answer for the lies they have told.  

How can you prove you didn’t do something?

They delay the process with an allegation or failure to do what they were supposed to but no-one does anything.

How can they get away with this?

With each hearing you feel more and more hopeless and just as controlled as you were in the relationship.  All you wanted was freedom from abuse but it’s got worse and you can’t see how it’s going to end.

We totally understand. Deborah felt the same way....

Deborah was very skeptical when we first spoke. She had been through the court process repeatedly for the past six years (and over £100,000 in fees), each time her ex had gazumped her with last minute allegations (this time he threw his grenade just 24 hours before the court date on Monday) and left my client in panic mode. He had also managed to convince everyone that my client was uncommunicative and neglectful.

As a lawyer he knew exactly what to say and always turned up in his expensive suit, schmoozing the other professionals and feeling pretty invincible.

Whilst my client felt exhausted, angry and beaten. She was terrified her ex was going to win again and he would get primary custody.

WHEN SHE GOT THE NEWS THAT THE GAL WAS THE SAME FROM PREVIOUS YEARS, SHE FELT THE WRITING WAS ON THE WALL.

In our three sessions we were able to prepare her for court as well as the meetings with the GAL and Youth Worker who were providing evidence in court. Plus the school, doctors and therapists.

What we achieved in such a short amount of time was incredible.

  • Not only did we manage to turn around the GAL’s opinion of both her and her ex, the judge also turned on him.
  • The kids authentic voices were heard and they were shown they matter.
  • They have support and their narcissistic father is being watched.
  • They still have a relationship with both parents but they are free from the control.

They now get to live their lives freely and safely.

In just 3 sessions she got the result she had wanted for the past six years!

So how did we do it?

We worked with Deborah to build her confidence to approach the court process, the interviews and her ex with the belief that she could get the result she wanted.

We had weekly sessions (it only took 3!) where we listened to her concerns and helped her formulate a plan.  This included:

  • how to identify the type of narcissist she was dealing with so that we could then confidently predict his behaviours before he dropped the bomb – reducing her anxiety and allowing her to feel more in control
  • correctly figure out his weakness so that she could reverse engineer his argument which meant she had her defense in place before he fired the gun – taking away the element of surprise and ensuring her reaction was calm and reasoned rather than emotional
  • focusing in on the language she used to present herself and her argument which tapped into both the professional’s psychological profile and the expectations of the court – helping her to easily build rapport and trust with them which increased her credibility
  • managing her symptoms of PTSD by consistently reinforcing that she was in a different place to where she was 6 years ago, she was stronger and had more knowledge and support – preventing her from catastrophising every meeting before she had even met the professional or stepped foot in the court foot, allowing her to present the facts in a concise and logical manner – disproving her exes narrative that she was unstable 

Get Court Ready is a unique programme written especially for those going to court against a narcissist or experiencing parental alienation because the usual methods simply do not work.  In fact, as you have found, they can make things worse.

It includes child protection knowledge, a thorough understanding of Cluster B personality disorders and life coaching tools to shift your mentality to one where you believe you can get the result you want.

The programme is a 6 week coaching programme which includes:

  • one to one sessions
  • weekly training
  • group support
  • online toolbox to access whenever you need
  • weekly accountability
  • Live Q & A sessions every week

By the end of the 6 weeks you will feel:

  • stronger
  • determined
  • confident
  • full of self belief
  • ready to get into court and rewrite your exes narrative

This programme is giving people peace from the constant court battles and freedom to focus on themselves and the children, building a life without being under the microscope.

DO YOU HAVE 6 WEEKS TO TURN THINGS AROUND? CAN YOU AFFORD TO WAIT?

NEXT PROGRAMME STARTS 1ST NOVEMBER 2020.

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Apply now and take teh first step twoards turning things around in just 6 weeks


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