Have you heard the one about the parent who was trying to co-parent with a narcissist?
They got PTSD and went bankrupt
Not much of a punchline is it!?
But it is reality. Narcissists do not co-parenting. They counter-parent.
They are simply not interested in collaborating and communicating unless it is to get their own way. In fact the only “co” they are interested in is CONTROL.
You left to get your freedom but in fact you feel just as trapped as before.
The abuse has carried on only this time you feel less able to protect the children.
They have turned all your friends against you, cut out your family and are trying to destroy your relationship with your children.
You need space and time to recover from the relationship, which has left you anxious, depressed and burned out. But the blows just keep coming. Every email is an attack and you freeze when your phone goes, terrified at what vile bullshit they are going to throw your way this time.
When they are pleasant you feel that knot in the pit of your stomach, “what they up to?”
People think you should just “communicate for the sake of the kids” or “move on”. Yeah right, because it’s that easy!!
No-one understand the turmoil you are and the blows keep on coming. Narcissists really are relentless.
They drag you through court, taking the opportunity to humiliate you and bankrupt you all in one go. Their lies become more and more disgusting and yet they are believed. No matter what you do, the world is shitting on you from a great height.
The narcissist will make you feel like you are powerless and have conditioned you throughout the relationship to give in to them.
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